3 When your sex partner looks at you with those "come to bed" eyes, do you
a) feel excited and thrilled about the prospect of sex with her?
b) find a way to give her an orgasm before you enter her and intercourse starts?
c)feel anxious about not being able to satisfy her?
d) simply not care whether you come too soon or she has an orgasm or not? (be honest!)
4 When you want sex, do you
a) sometimes decide not to say anything about it because you can't stand the thought of coming too soon yet again?
b)feel confident about your abilities as a lover and know how to stay in control?
c) start making excuses in advance in case things don't go well?
d) press on regardless, thinking that this time it might somehow be alright - just hope for the best?
5 When your partner's very aroused, during intercourse, does she ever
a) reach orgasm as you thrust in her vagina?
b) get to the edge, look like she's going to come, and then you ejaculate, and that's the end of sex?
c) tell you to go for it and enjoy yourself, regardless of whether or not she's reached orgasm?
d) achieve orgasm at the same time as you or just afterwards?
6 How do you feel after intercourse?
a) disappointed you couldn't keep going longer
b) totally satisfied with your performance in bed
c) know that you need to improve, but not sure how to last longer in bed as a man
d) confident, assured, like a great lover - proud!
7 How's your relationship after sex?
a) relaxed and intimate, with cuddling and closeness
b) tense and strained - it's a relief to get up and leave the bedroom or go to sleep
c) your partner looks let down, and you have to console her
d) you wish you knew what it feels like to be a real man
8 Overall, how would you rate yourself as a lover, where 0 is rubbish and 10 is the best possible?
a) 0 - 2
b) 3 - 5
c) 6 - 8
d) 9 - 10